FAQS

How does The Secret Majority help individuals and couples?

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At The Secret Majority, we support people through emotionally complex experiences: from relationship breakdowns to 'gender disappointment' and everything in between.

We help individuals who are navigating:

• Divorce or separation

• Co-parenting dynamics

• Relationship uncertainty

• 'Gender disappointment' as a parent

• Emotional overwhelm and decision paralysis during life transitions

We help couples who are:

• Feeling stuck, disconnected, or in conflict

• Unsure whether to stay together or separate

• Wanting to improve communication and rebuild trust

• Preparing to co-parent well through or after a breakup

Our approach is always full of compassion, empowering, and research-informed. We don’t offer quick fixes; we help you understand what’s happening emotionally, recognise and change unhelpful patterns, and have clearer, more courageous conversations.

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Are sessions online or face-to-face?

 

The Secret Majority offers both online, via Google Meets, and face-to-face appointments as well as walking sessions. We will work in a way that best supports you.

 

Do you work with, or can you connect me with, other professionals?

 

Yes. Once we have worked together and established your unique needs, if required, we will put you in touch with excellent specialists: lawyers, financial advisors, mediators, accountants, therapists, and a myriad of other professionals and resources as needs arise

 

What will happen in my free, no-obligation 30-minute discovery call?

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This is a relaxed, welcoming conversation where we can get to know each other a little. You’ll have space and time to share what’s bringing you here, whether it's a difficult separation, relationship tension, parenting challenges, or something you're still figuring out and I’ll explain how I can support you. You’re welcome to ask anything; about how I work, costs, timeframes, or whether what you’re experiencing “fits” what I do.

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There’s absolutely no obligation to book anything afterwards. This call is just about exploring whether we’re a good fit, and making sure you feel safe, supported, and understood.

 

I really want to do this; I need the support, but I’m worried about the cost — how can I justify this investment?

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It’s completely valid to feel cautious about spending money, especially during times of emotional or financial stress. But this work isn’t just an expense; it’s an investment in clarity, stability, and your long-term wellbeing that can save you money.

When we're overwhelmed, our decision-making, communication, and confidence can suffer, but working together can help you:

• Make clearer, calmer decisions

• Reduce emotional overwhelm and reactivity

• Navigate conflict or change with confidence

• Avoid costly missteps in legal, relational, or family decisions

This isn’t coaching-for-the-sake-of-talking. It’s structured, evidence-based support designed to move you forward with courage, connection, and adaptability.​

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How much do you charge?

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Each one house 1:1 or couples session is £125

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